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Regression? The friend who died

We have been put to her that many times when you have a problem related to emotional call it trauma, phobia, or miedito miedote ... a of the best and most professional ways to give little problem solution is lying on a divány a guy with glasses and look deep you make the famous "regression "...

Usually in this regression is reached that the reason for all your problems is that a 4-year diaa naked grandmother wears out the shower and from that moment you can not have a stable relationship with any woman they see naked ... After identified the problem we proceed to develop a relatively long treatment (the patient) and cost (The psychologist).

I'm not saying this is a common practice ... but we can say that the concept holds if it is common knowledge that knowledge ... touted as the solution to our current problems in the past. What we did, as we saw that someone did ... in conclusion ... once again ... the past.

This type of philosophy for many psychologists young and not so young are obsolete, we must remove that mask victimizing everything that happens to me is because of people or my surroundings or my reality ... awesome!

The truth is that many "causes" can be found there, many reasons, many explanations ... but what we seek is not solve the problem?, But find explanation?

is more important?

say, "God! so I feel all this! "

or say ..." God! I do not feel that he did not want to feel "...

Ok, the truth is this, the solution is here in the present, we have all the qualities and capabilities to solve our problems without thinking about the past.

I want to make clear that I do not say that the past does not matter what I say is that the solution is not there, and error com & # 250, n - I say this from experience - think it's there.

If you forgive your father or mother for something I did as a child, as these forgiving now, Forgiveness is not past, present, then gentlemen, we know that our lives depend on and can be changed from this moment ...

do you need?

Well ...

Thinking about the reasons for change.

Write them.

Decide.

Willpower.

value. Some

madness ...